How bout I just WISH! Heh...

Disagree........completely. Now a '66 split window Vette? That has the power to rule my world. Guess that is why Wifey is not as worried about the chickies I might meet in my travels as much as she is the car they might be driving.

It's all about cubic inches, my man.

'63 split window.......typo extraordinaire.

Man, you've got to have somewhere warm to go after a good shakedown cruise.

I don't think it can be expressed that simply. I would agree that it APPEARS that way...but it isn't truth. It's only half of the equation.

Men are more ruled by one side of their brain than women, so when you connect (that would be chemistry and I don't get that)...for a while it's like having some extra arms and legs...you never get to tap into the power of love until you learn to think as one and combine your BRAINS...THEN you are tapping into the power that you speak of.

Women just need different things than men. And, women don't understand what it does to withhold sex from a guy...but guys don't understand what it does to a woman when they withhold their problem solving skills and whatnot either...

And, it's not just about the release of testosterone for men either..although that's a big part of it..but if that solved all the problems, then why does just getting laid get so damn old after a while?

Sex between a couple who is in tune with each other, committed, and on that different plane that I think we're talking about...is not a sexual thing as much as an extension of the relationship..another way of expressing feelings..sorrow, comfort, joy...etc. It's as natural as smiling or crying or whatever...you can feel the emotion coming from your partner and sometimes to make love to them, is the perfect way of saying..It's going to be all right or Hooray...

Now, women are a little more intuitive than men, I think..I'm not going to swear on this..but women, we'll say are quicker to recognize to the heart of the problem. This is where it gets tricky...women FORGET that men aren't as in touch with their feelings and interpretations of them...as women are..so men tend to just know that the answer to their problem is this or that...say needing some lovin' since this is what we're talking about...and it looks like they are just dogs..but they're not..they don't know always WHY they feel the way they do..just that they do and that the woman has the power to fix it. Women don't always recognize this..and think that all they are good for is sex...

It is up to the woman, I think, to recognize these things...and take action...just as a man does with the things he recognizes could make life better.

The word power has to be taken out of sentences involving relationships though...there is no room for power struggles in a relationship.

I'm sure this isn't a complete answer...but you get my drift?